Paul K. Firm

Passed 3/10/2010

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Obituary For Paul K. Firm

Paul K. Firm, 53, of Steubenville, Ohio died Wednesday, March 10, 2010 in Trinity West ER. He was born September 19, 1956 in Steubenville a son of the late Harry J. & Rita M. Bahen Firm. He attended First Westminster Presbyterian Church and was employed by Steubenville Truck Center. Paul was a 1974 graduate of Steubenville High School and a graduate of Kent State University. An avid Big Red fan, he was a member of Big Red Boosters and coached basketball & football at Roosevelt Elementary School. Paul served as Big Red’s statistician for over twenty years. Paul also coached Steubenville Little League for fifteen years. He was also an avid Steelers and Pirates fan, holding “Opening Day” season tickets for 30 years. A devoted husband and father, Paul is survived by his wife Deborah S. Starliper Firm; daughter Ashley Lynn, a student at the University of Pittsburgh; son Matthew Paul at home; brother Harry (Kay) Firm of Columbus, OH; sisters Mary Beth Firm & Ruth Anne (Frank) Bruzzese both of Steubenville; four nieces Holly Firm McGiffin, Kristen Bruzzese Deleany, Bethany Bruzzese Dasenbrock & Gordana Lynn Vein; five nephews Anthony, Michael & Jeffrey Bruzzese, Jay Firm & Christopher Starliper; several great nieces and nephews. Friends may call at Shorac Funeral Home (the former McClave Funeral Home), 611 North Fourth Street, Steubenville on Friday 1-4 & 6-9 p.m.. On Saturday, friends may call at First Westminster Church, 235 North Fourth Street from 10 a.m. until the time of services at 11 a.m. with Rev. Jason Elliott officiating. Burial at  Union Cemetery.  Memorials may be directed to the Steubenville High School Foundation.

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  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie, Matthew, & Ashley I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Paul will always be remembered as a wonderful man, and a great father. I will have wonderful memories of Paul taking Matt on the field before every Big Red game. Anyone whoever got a chance to meet Paul will truly be blessed. Just remember memories live with you forever. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless, Erin ( from Dr. Macias'office)

  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie, Ashley & Matt, We are so sorry for your loss. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God be with you during the diffucult time. Jim & Delania McKinney

  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie, Ashley & Matthew; We send your family our sincerest condolences as our hearts ache for your tremendous loss. We hope that the thoughts and prayers of others might send you some small measure of Comfort. Dave & Sue Delaney

  • 09/03/2024

    We send our deepest sympathies to the Firm family. Heaven has truly gained another angel. God bless all of you during this time of loss. Roy and Jennifer Fouty

  • 09/03/2024

    To Debbie and children, Ruth Ann, Mary Beth and HJ, Please accept my sincere sympathy at Paul's passing. I cannot even begin to tell you how saddened I was to hear of it. There are so many memories I have of "The Flash" over the years. Playing in the neighborhood; the "Snow Bowls" on Grandview Ave; studio wrestling on Park St as well as block parties there. He always made me laugh and was such a good person. Having him as part of my wedding over 30 years ago just shows you how well-thought of he was by my wife and me. Debbie, I certainly remember you and wish you and your family the best. Again, please accept my sympathies. Keith Wise

  • 09/03/2024

    My deepest sympathy goes out to the Firm family. I had the pleasure of getting to know Paul over the past 20 years, through the trucking industry. Paul always took the time to sit and chat trucks and sports, but his passion in life was definately his family. He always took the time to ask about my family and spoke about his with great joy and pride. He will be truely missed. May God bless you all through this time.

  • 09/03/2024

    Mary Beth and Ruth Ann You have my sympathy regarding Paul. We are currently in Florida and will give you a call when we get home. God Bless you and yours during the next few days. Paul was a special man that made a difference in our community. Love, Ann and Geordie Lindsay

  • 09/03/2024

    paul was a great friend growing up. when i came back to town to see a game there was paul always with a smile. my heart goes out to the family.

  • 09/03/2024

    Ashley, I am so sorry for your lost of your dad. If you need anything please let me know.

  • 09/03/2024

    Kay & H, So sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  • 09/03/2024

    Harry,Ruth Ann and family,we are truly saddened to hear of Paul's passing..Paul not only showed his desire for big red sports but also showed his caring for others..the zap's

  • 09/03/2024

    Ashley, Matthew, Mary Beth, Ruth Anne, Harry, Debbie, and family, So sorry for the loss of Paul. In his passing, Big Red has lost more than can ever be replaced. He was a great fan, booster, volunteer, and friend. He helped me as a coach at Roosevelt and shaped many of our students. He helped us reach hundreds of fans through our broadcasting of games. He supported Reno, the coaches and all of our players by giving countless hours to their promotion. He was a good brother . You could always call on him for help. He was a friend to all. But most of all he was the best dad I ever met. Below ia a poem that parallels some of Paul's strengths but even it is lacking in describing the best father I have ever known. Rich Ranallo A True Father C. By Anonymous Most any man can father a child for this we know is true, but to be a good dad there's a whole lot more for all these men to do. They have to have strength to endure long days even though their bodies be tired, the love in their hearts has to show in their eyes to the child who so admires. They have to show honesty through each day and show that life is worth living, they have to show caring in all they do in taking and in giving. Understanding has to be a big part of the father's heart as well, and though he feels pain or hurts at times he may never, never tell. They have a great laughter that shows in their eyes and comes rolling from within, to light up the faces of each little child as each day draws to an end. Hopes for today, Dreams for tomorrow is what they must keep showing, and though they grow old they still feel great joy, for the love of their children keeps growing.

  • 09/03/2024

    We send our deepest sympathy to Paul's family and friends. He will live on through your hearts and Big Red football. May God Bless and strengthen you in your time of need.

  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie, Ashley & Matt- I am so sorry for your loss. Paul was my coach so many years ago, we shared a laugh in Wheeling this past season when I yelled to him, "Remember the Bisons". We were terrible-but you'd never know it from Coach. Kind and patient, and always glad to be there. Take comfort in those that tell you how highly they thought of Paul. He was a good man, and we all saw a great Dad, and I appreciate his commitment to our community & kids. Much prayers are with you at this time.

  • 09/03/2024

    My deepest sympathies and prayers to all in Paul's family. He was taken from you much too soon. I hope you will fair well through this most tragic time. Mick (Goose) Giannamore I graduated with Paul from Big Red in '74.

  • 09/03/2024

    Our heartfelt sympathy to the Firm family. Paul was a good caring man and Loyal fan of the Big Red. I've known Paul since I was a kid and he always made time to say Hi and chat with you and He will be missed. Joe and Deb Lamantia

  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie, Ashley, Matthew & family: My prayers are with you at this most difficult time. I'm deeply saddened by the news of the passing of a true gentleman in every possible way. I've been blessed to call Paul a friend for many years, from the early days, to the many days spent at Twin State working together. His smile was unmistakable when he was talking about his family, especially his beautiful children Ashley and Matthew. May you keep your memories as cherished blessings and may God bring you comfort each day. -Doug

  • 09/03/2024

    To the Paul Firm Family, We are so sorry for your loss. We didn't know Paul personally but we saw him at every Big Red game with his son. Anyone could see that he was a devoted father; so being a great husband and uncle, would only be natural to him. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.We are sure he is in the Lord's loving embrace.

  • 09/03/2024

    I am so sorry for the loss of Paul. I worked with Paul at Steubenville Truck Center for 10 years and he was a great person. He was so devoted to everyone in his life and he was very admired, I am sorry I cannot be there to give my condolences in person. May God be with all of you.

  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie, Ashley, and Matthew My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family in this trying time. Heaven has gained another angel. Jackie McKinney

  • 09/03/2024

    Ruth Ann, Mary Beth Debbie Ashley & Matt Our prayers are with you. Always remember the love he has for all of his family. He was an outstanding brother , father and loyal supporter of Big Red. We will all truly miss Paul. Our prayers are with each & everyone of the family & friends that will miss him. GOD BLESS

  • 09/03/2024

    Mrs. Firm, Ashley and Matthew, please accept our sincere and deepest sympathy on the passing of your husband and father. We were extremely sadden when Adam called us. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Grant Eternal Rest to Paul, and May His Memory Be Eternal. Patti, Greg, Adam and Scott Dulak

  • 09/03/2024

    Mary Beth, Ruth Anne and Debbie: I wanted to offer my sympathy for your loss with Paul's passing. He was an outstanding father and Big Red supporter. His work in compiling statistics and writing press releases for our program provided opportunities for a lot of kids. My personal conversations with Paul always focused on Matt and Ashley and their achievements. I will always remember him as Big Red's # 1 parent. Dr. Dan Keenan

  • 09/03/2024

    My heartfelt sympathy to Paul's family. He was a great caring person and friend. Always smiling and ready to say hello. I'm sure he will be missed by his many, many friends and family.

  • 09/03/2024

    TRUE FRIENDS ARE HARD TO COME BY. AND EVEN HARDER TO LOSE. AND AS MUCH SORROW AND PAIN THAT I FEEL AT THIS TIME CAN NOT EVEN BEGIN TO MATCH THAT OF YOURS. TO ASHLEY AND MATT ONE OF THE THINGS I WILL MISS MOST ABOUT YOUR FATHER IS THE WAY HIS FACE LIT UP EVERY TIME HE TALKED ABOUT YOU. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. MARCH MADNESS AND BIG RED FOOTBALL WILL GO ON. BUT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME FOR ME. I AM LUCKY TO HAVE KNOWN PAUL.

  • 09/03/2024

    My prayers and thoughts are with you all at this time of sorrow. I know that Paul will never be forgotten for all the wonderful things he has done for our schools and our children. I send my love to the family Danette Johnson

  • 09/03/2024

    Deb, Ashley and Matthew, I just heard of the passing of Paul. I am truely sorry for your loss. If I can help in any way please let me know. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Miss and Love. Sara

  • 09/03/2024

    Please except these belated condolences on your lose. I was out of the area in March and just now heard of Paul's passing. I, too, graduated with Paul and had the pleasure of knowing him for too few years. Part of the magic of Big Red football was seeing Paul and Matthew at every game and their obvious bond. Those moments will be missed by everyone who considers themselves a Big Red fan. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

  • 09/03/2024

    My condolences to the Firm family. To Ms.(Mary Beth) Firm, So sorry to hear about your brother. He always seemed like such a great person and most of all father and a very caring man. My prayers are with you and your family. michelle Sullivan(one of your past cheerleaders you coached at Big Red)

  • 09/03/2024

    Dear RuthAnn and Family, I just heard the news and am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I will keep Paul and your family in my prayers. Jennifer Macre & family

  • 09/03/2024

    Deb, Ashley, and Matt- I just heard and am shocked and so truly saddened to hear the news. I hope you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your faith, friends, and family will help you through this difficult time. Love you guys. Deanna

  • 09/03/2024

    I was so saddened to hear of Paul's passing. I went to elementary and junior high school with Paul before my family moved to Maryland. I didn't get to see Paul many time after that, only at Big Red games when I came back to town. Paul was always a very special friend to me. May you be comforted during this very difficult time.

  • 09/03/2024

    So sorry to hear this sad news and hope that your family will cherish the wonderful memories you have. I know the BIG RED family will miss him as well as his warm smile.

  • 09/03/2024

    Ruth Ann and Mary Beth... Albert and I want to express our sympathy at the unexpected loss of your brother. He will be missed by many...especially those at all the Big Red games. He was a wonderful father. We pray that God will give strength to all of you during this difficult time.

  • 09/03/2024

    To Paul's Family and Friends, Another life of the class of '74 has left us too soon. Although our paths have not crossed since those earlier days, it's obvious from all the kind words just how much he was loved and respected. May these memories give you strength throughout this difficult time and always. You're all in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Nancy Magyer

  • 09/03/2024

    "Uncle Paul" are two words that have been a part of the word "home" my whole life. I don't know how to enter the city of Steubenville without thinking about what day I will see Uncle Paul. He is truly an inspiration to me and this past week, I can see he was to others too. He was what I call a "quiet hero" doing so much for so many and never requiring recognition for it. One of the funniest people I'll ever be around, supportive of his nieces and nephews even when harassing us, loving, and without a mean or bitter bone in his body. Very very few people are like him. The world is missing one of the great ones now. He will be a guardian angel with an amazing sense of humor though. Love you Uncle Paul...forever. You will still be part of "home." You are missed.

  • 09/03/2024

    No words are sufficient to convey the loss of someone whose life is cut so tragically short. I knew Paul through high school and we graduated together in 1974. I rarely saw much of him in the years after graduation but always felt in touch through his excellent recreations of Big Red football games on the Big Red website. My deepest sympathies to his family & those closest to Paul.

  • 09/03/2024

    Dear Debbie, Ashley, Matt & Firm Family, We were deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Paul. An obituary can only highlight a small portion of one's life and his memory will live on in the hearts of those that loved and knew him. He has been a big part of many young lives growing up in Steubenville. His memory will live on forever in the hearts of those whose lives he has touched. Paul was a magnificent husband, father and friend. We cherish the friendship we had with Paul since High School, as well as with all of you. Paul�s quick sense of humor and ageless smile we will miss the most. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May God Bless and comfort you and your family during this difficult time. May Paul�s Memory Be Eternal not just here on earth but in the Kingdom of Heaven with our Lord. Love & Prayers, Jerry and Mary Lynn & Nicholas Ricci

  • 09/03/2024

    You have my sympathy. May God bless you all in this time of loss. We lost a great person and the best statman ever.

  • 09/03/2024

    Dear Debbie, Ashley, Matthew, Ruth Anne, Mary Beth, Harry and Firm family, We send our deepest sympathy in the loss of Paul. Paul was such a wonderful person. He was so good to my parents and they loved him so. I can remember the many hours my father and Paul worked on Big Red Football. Debbie....my mother so enjoyed when you would visit with Matthew and Ashley. I'm very sorry that we were unable to make the viewing to pay our respects to Paul. May the wonderful memories that you have shared together over the years live forever in your hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love Janet and the Maltese family

  • 09/03/2024

    We are so very sorry to hear of Paul's passing. He was a great friend and will be missed by all. We are unable to be at the funeral home but wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and your family. If you need anything please call. Our prayers are with you all. Walt and Francie Gross

  • 09/03/2024

    MY prayer's go to the Firm Family I was so sorry to hear what happen to Mr. Firm. He was a wonderful person and I didn't even know him personally but I would see him with his son.One day I was down town and he saved a parking space for me when he saw me going in circle's looking for a space while the parade was about to start.MY GOD BLESS THE FIRM FAMILY AND PAUL

  • 09/03/2024

    Debbie and Family, My sincere condolences to you and your family at this time. Please know that you are in my prayers. Martha (LaRue) Jordan & Family

  • 09/03/2024

    To the Firm Family, Please accept our condolences for your loss. Your family will be in our prayers. Peter and Donna Pavkovich

  • 09/03/2024

    Dear Debbie, Mary Beth, Ruth Anne, Ashley, Matthew, and Firm family, I was so sorry to hear of Paul's sudden passing. He was a great husband, dad, and brother and will be sorely missed by his family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Holly

  • 09/03/2024

    Words cannot express the sorrow felt for your beloved father and husband on his passing. Our prayers are with you and your family always.

  • 09/03/2024

    I am honored to had the privilege to work with Paul at Steubenville Truck Center. It just ripped my heart out when I heard about his death. Paul was a totally devoted and good man. He would help anyone out. Paul helped me out by dropping my son off at school. Paul and Travis had a little inside joke going.The morning of Paul's death he dropped Travis off. He told Travis, "we should just go and play ball." Paul was an angel is disguise. My deepest sympath to all of Paul's family.

  • 09/03/2024

    Dave and I and our family are so saddened by Paul's passing. He will be sorely missed. Our deepest sympathies to you all. You will be in our thoughts, prayers and hearts. God bless you.

  • 09/03/2024

    Paul was a friend I youst to own Cardinal Pontiac in Cadiz and did business with him. Just thought hes a a great stand up guy!!! My thoughts are with all! Ja

  • 09/03/2024

    I was so saddened to hear about Paul's unexpected passing. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

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